As a kid who thought he had to figure it all out on his own, I went to work forcing and controlling and achieving, from my head. All the while of course my heart was guiding and directing me, I just wasn't fully listening. I was too afraid to listen to my heart fully. What if I failed, what if it didn't work out. Of course as a young man without a Dad, I thought if I did fail, if it didn't work out, it would be the end of me. Us fatherless sons tell ourselves the story that we are all alone and that we have to fend for ourselves every second of every day.
The two things I want to say are:
1.) It isn't true that we are all alone, look all around you, there are people who are dying to support you and get your back if you would just let them.
2.) If you follow your heart, you will be taken care of and you can never fail.
Have a Great Day,